Don't deactivate a core plugin during update #17213

Description:

refs https://github.com/matomo-org/matomo/issues/17181

Basically, we should stop the updater if there is an error with a core plugin. Eg when adding a referrer column we shouldn't simply disable the referrer plugin as it can cause unexpected issues as Matomo doesn't always work when disabling a core plugin.

Review

• [ ] Functional review done
• [ ] Usability review done (is anything maybe unclear or think about anything that would cause people to reach out to support)
• [ ] Security review done see checklist
• [ ] Code review done
• [ ] Tests were added if useful/possible
• [ ] Reviewed for breaking changes
• [ ] Developer changelog updated if needed
• [ ] Documentation added if needed
• [ ] Existing documentation updated if needed